{"id":1719,"date":"2022-06-20T10:11:27","date_gmt":"2022-06-20T10:11:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.autismconnect.com\/blogs\/?p=1719"},"modified":"2025-08-04T11:59:59","modified_gmt":"2025-08-04T11:59:59","slug":"a-mothers-thoughts-on-the-power-of-neurodiversity-and-positive-parenting","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.autismconnect.com\/blogs\/a-mothers-thoughts-on-the-power-of-neurodiversity-and-positive-parenting\/","title":{"rendered":"A Mother\u2019s Thoughts on the Power of Neurodiversity and Positive Parenting."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Language holds power. We see this every day on our social media feeds, whether it\u2019s<br \/>\nsomething going viral on twitter or a meme on IG that speaks to exactly what we are feeling<br \/>\nin the moment. That is why I was so drawn to the term neurodiversity.<\/p>\n<p>Neurodiversity is a science-based concept that says that brain\/learning differences, like<br \/>\nAutism, ADHD, Dyslexia, etc. are biologically normal or mainstream. It frames the<br \/>\nchallenges that come with neurodiversity as differences instead of framing them as deficits.<br \/>\nFor me, this was a huge \u201cah-ha\u201d moment. This one word told me that there was nothing<br \/>\n\u201cwrong\u201d with my brain, it was just different \u2013 and that was okay. Different is normal,not<br \/>\nwrong,not broken,not in need of fixing. I can work with different<\/p>\n<p>As a mother of two neurodivergent kids, it was critical for my boys to grow up feeling that<br \/>\nsame sense of pride about their brain differences; it was not enough that I felt this way.<br \/>\nAfter all, why should they think of themselves as broken, when they are not? Their brains<br \/>\ncan do incredible things. They see the world in a different way. There are so many<br \/>\nstrengths in brain differences, that I wanted them to see those strength within themselves<br \/>\nand build on them. The challenge for me, as a mother, was how do to that.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignright size-full wp-image-1735\" src=\"https:\/\/www.autismconnect.com\/blogs\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/4.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"275\" height=\"183\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Like many parents, when I looked for ways to teach my kids, I turned to stories &#8211; I turned to<br \/>\nbooks. Unfortunately, I soon discovered that there were not a lot of picture books that<br \/>\nshowed neurodivergent characters. (To be clear, there are some incredible stories out<br \/>\nthere, but not nearly enough.) I wanted books that could mirror my children\u2019s experiences<br \/>\nwearing headphones, chewing gum, playing with fidget toys and their comfort in routine<br \/>\nand schedules. I wanted to provide them these types of mirrors to normalize their<br \/>\nexperiences, so that they could see picture book characters being just like them. I wanted<br \/>\nthem to see that their experiences while different, were also normal.<\/p>\n<p>I never set out to be an author\/illustrator, but I became one to fill a gap that I saw. I<br \/>\ncreated the Super Fun Day Books series to show neurodivergent children facing challenges<br \/>\nand overcoming them. My books are structured like social stories, which is a tool used in<br \/>\nspecial education to help teach children about something that may be hard. The<br \/>\nillustrations in the books are purposefully simple to help keep a focus on the story and the<br \/>\nfont is dyslexic friendly. All the books are available as audiobooks to make them accessible<br \/>\nto all types of learners. (I happen to consume books best in audio format myself and am so<br \/>\nthankful for that technology).<\/p>\n<p>There are days when my children are proud of their neurodiversity and there are days, like<br \/>\nwith all children, they just want to be like everyone else. I hope that my books help other<br \/>\nparents, educators, and therapists, support children so that they more days when they feel<br \/>\nproud of their brain differences.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-1736\" src=\"https:\/\/www.autismconnect.com\/blogs\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/1-blog-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.autismconnect.com\/blogs\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/1-blog-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.autismconnect.com\/blogs\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/1-blog-294x196.jpg 294w, https:\/\/www.autismconnect.com\/blogs\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/1-blog-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.autismconnect.com\/blogs\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/1-blog.jpg 960w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>But it cannot just be about neurodivergent kids learning about themselves \u2013 neurodiversity<br \/>\nshould be understood by all children (and adults). Other children see the headphones, the<br \/>\ngum chewing, the weighted vests, and wobble seats. Books are also windows into someone<br \/>\nelse\u2019s life, and I love hearing about how my books help start conversations with<br \/>\nneurotypical kids about the differences they may see with their neurodivergent peers.<br \/>\nAfterall, as a mother, I can help change how my kids feel about themselves but the world<br \/>\naround them has to share in that positive message. It will take all of us to make that kind of<br \/>\nchange.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Language holds power. 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